Focus on the moment, this is the greatest catalyst for change. Do not dwell on what happened in the past, you cannot change what has happened. Do not worry about what is coming in the future, it is still a mystery. Focus on the right now. Where is your mind taking you in this moment? Are you moving toward higher ground or are you wallowing in self-pity?
Moment by moment we make choices that affect who we are and where we go. It is in the details where we make the most difference. Small consistent movements in the positive direction over time build great momentum toward success.